I’ve written before about how I like to watch HBO’s Girls. The system works really well for me, and I see no reason to change it. Season four of Girls aired from January through March (ish) of this year, and I got around to it a couple of weeks ago, knocking it out in two days instead of one because the mature content ensures I don’t turn it on until late at night.
This season starts out very similarly to every other season of the show. Hannah (Lena Dunham) is flighty and neurotic, Marnie (Allison Williams) is somehow selfishly blind to her own bad behavior but self-righteously judgmental of others, Jessa (Jemima Kirke) is a tactless and ridiculously awful person — I mean, they’re all awful people, but Jessa is really bad — and Shosh (Zosia Mamet) is both entitled and insecure. And through all the comings and goings of the show, all the events that these four go through over the course of the season, that’s pretty much exactly how their personalities stay. Until the very end.
Like a light switch being flicked to the on position, the final episode of the fourth season of Girls found Marnie coming into her own as a performer, independent of selfish men who would bring her down or distract her. And Jessa for once in her awful, awful life was truly helpful in her take charge way and seemed to find a direction in her life that feels more substantial than all her previous flights of fancy. Shosh, meanwhile, is moving to Tokyo, where she will be an actual adult career woman and could really truly (theoretically) grow up. But most shocking of all, of course, is Hannah, who despite having a truly inappropriate besties relationship with a student at an oblivious level only Hannah could ever possibly achieve, manages to come away with a mature, seemingly healthy relationship with an actual adult male who would most assuredly downplay all her drama. (This last thing did require a six-month time jump, though, because Hannah is Hannah and also an infant.)
All of these changes would be shocking in any context, given the nature of the characters up to this point, but what’s perhaps most shocking of all is the realization that, while all the earlier episodes were happening, the show was building up right to these moments, and the characters were growing into these new, almost fully adult people without our even realizing it. Would Hannah have been able to turn Adam (Adam Driver) away if she hadn’t glimpsed a life without him? Would she ever have considered teaching — a vocation that, lack of boundaries aside, she seems really good at — had it not been for her failure in Iowa? It turns out, along the way these girls actually have been absorbing some life lessons. It’s just an excruciatingly slow process.
Another point of the season that I thought a lot about, and that, if I remember correctly, had been covered extensively in articles around the time the episode aired, was the performance of Gillian Jacobs as Mimi-Rose and, more specifically, her abortion. In my experience there are a lot of shows that tout a woman’s right to choose but never actually have a woman make that choice. The fact that Mimi-Rose does it behind the scenes, as it were, without discussion or debate, is fascinating to me. It doesn’t mean, as I think some have assumed, that she was cavalier about her decision. We don’t see her reaction to her pregnancy or her decision-making process at all. We simply see the part in which she tells Adam she can’t partake in certain activities because of it. Not coldly, but matter of fact. “This is what happened, and these are things I can’t currently do because of it.” And voila! All of a sudden an abortion is actually being treated on television as a true medical decision between a woman and her doctor and not really anyone else’s business. I love that choice as a story point, I love the decision to feature something so bold (much more controversial than Lena Dunham’s nudity, I’m sure), and I love the conclusions it seemed to draw. Very courageous, truly.
So maybe the tagline of the season has it right, and maybe these Girls are finally growing into women.
All seasons of Girls are available on HBOGo, HBO OnDemand (where I watch them) and Amazon Instant Video.

