The Task: Watch and write about every movie on my shelf, in order (Blu-rays are sorted after DVDs), by June 10, 2015. Remaining movies: 159 Days to go: 150
Movie #224: Revolutionary Road
I’m the first to admit Revolutionary Road is not for everyone, and I completely understand why some people aren’t into it. I am not one of those people. As far as I’m concerned, Revolutionary Road is beautiful in the way it perfectly encapsulates the ugly, devastating destruction of a marriage.
Frank and April Wheeler (Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet) are pretty selfish people, to be honest. They look down their noses at their friends and neighbors, positive they are better than everyone and everything else — completely above it all. Beyond that, as individuals neither Frank nor April are getting their needs met by their marriage, and as a result they completely fail to see beyond themselves to their partner. Even when they try to be considerate and supportive of one another they say the wrong thing or their timing is all off. Their relationship disintegrates and becomes toxic, and while there was a moment when it could’ve been salvaged, the moment passes and there’s nothing more either of them can do.
I myself have had that moment — I’ve seen the moment when my first marriage could’ve been saved, could’ve been rebuilt. I tried to grasp it, but it flitted away and there was nothing more to be done but endure it. Yes, I’m much happier and better off now, but in that terrible moment when your marriage is falling apart — especially when, at one point, you truly did love your spouse — absolutely nothing is okay. I really appreciate the fact that Revolutionary Road doesn’t shy away from that pain, that pettiness, that nastiness that erupts. It doesn’t downplay Frank and April’s shortcomings or try to explain them away. It highlights them, in full despicable glory — all the fights, all the low blows, all the resentments, all the betrayals and all the fits of rage. It can be hard to watch, but it’s also hard to live through and that’s what Revolutionary Road makes clear.
Leo holds his own here — he does a particularly good job of walking the line of Frank seeing April’s unhappiness following the cancellation of their Paris plans, while being caught in the societal constraints of having to provide for his family, being considered a man and being offered a lucrative new job — but Kate really hits it out of the park. Every chain-smoked cigarette screams her frustration. Every household chore speaks to her boredom. And when April kisses Frank and welcomes him home on his birthday, excited to tell him her plan to move the family to Paris, her entire body glows with hope. Then when she discovers her pregnancy the hope drains from her in buckets. Her desperation is tangible, and she’ll do anything to get her hope back, whether it’s to beg Frank not to make them stay there or to drunkenly fuck her oafish neighbor Shep (David Harbour) because he’s openly wanted her for so long. Nothing works, and her desperation becomes despondent resignation.
In many ways, April’s last morning raises all the red flags of someone committing suicide: She gives Frank a good breakfast for his momentous day. She calls to keep her kids with Milly (Kathryn Hahn), crying as she asks her to kiss them goodbye for her. She cleans the house and arranges her things and goes solemnly into the bathroom to complete the nasty business before her. I don’t think she knew what was going to happen, though. I think she knew the risk, because her pregnancy was beyond twelve weeks along, so she was prepared for the worst, but I still don’t think she intended the result. At the same time, however, I don’t think she had enough hope and will to live to fight for her life when it was in danger. She was lost and had given up.
The performances here are strong across the board, including from Kathy Bates as the Wheelers’ realtor and Michael Shannon as her so-called mentally unstable son John who seems to see the truth of Frank and April’s life more than either of them is willing to admit, and the end result is a film that both painfully and painstakingly recreates a marriage that is imploding onto itself, with no holds barred. It reflects the lengths to which we will go — lengths that are within us all, if pushed to the brink — when things truly start to fall apart, and it illustrates how ugly and hateful we all can be when our lives are crumbling, like an injured animal attacking to protect itself. It’s the worst of us, yes, but it’s still a story well-worth telling. And Revolutionary Road tells it exceptionally well.



